1276: Classic ACP Finding Joy Beyond Discomfort
Key Takeaways
- Turning to face anxiety and panic rather than running away gives you the opportunity to truly heal and find joy beyond discomfort.
- Constantly chasing the desire to make discomfort stop can inadvertently keep the pain and anxiety cycle alive.
- Distracting yourself from uncomfortable feelings often holds you back and keeps you trapped in old behavioral loops.
- Slowing down, finding a neutral perspective, and approaching your situation with researcher-like curiosity can help you move through the urge to fight, flee, or freeze.
- Discomfort is uncomfortable, but it is not inherently dangerous when dealing with everyday anxiety rather than true physical peril.
In this episode Gina offers listeners a series of questions they can ask themselves and suggestions they can implement during their experience of the discomfort associated with anxiety and panic.
Turning to face the discomfort we are presented with during high anxiety moments can offer us the opportunity we are seeking to overcome the discomfort.
Questions to ask oneself:
What if there were more beyond that?
What if distracting was keeping us in the loop and holding us back from the joy in life?
What if chasing the desire to make the discomfort stop is actually keeping the pain and discomfort alive?
What if the joy was in going through vs giving in to distraction and running away from discomfort?
What if what we are looking for is in the opening of moving through the discomfort of what we think should be different than it is?
Suggestions to implement:
1.Slow down
2.Get to neutral and be curious about the situation (take the personalization out of it ...look at it as if you were a researcher without an agenda)
3.Remind yourself why you want to get to the other side of this situation and that it is joy that is found from going through the urge to fight flee or freeze when it is discomfort that you are dealing with not true danger.
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Chapters
0:28 Joy Beyond Discomfort
2:58 Discomfort Isn’t Dangerous
5:50 Breaking the Anxiety Cycle
9:58 Growth Through Grief
12:26 Three Ways to Stay Aware
16:46 Reflection Questions for Healing
Summary
In this episode, we reflect on reaching episode 400 and nearing 4 million downloads, and we thank listeners for sharing the show and sending feedback. We also note that people do not need a diagnosis to benefit from the discussion, since we all experience stress and discomfort in life.We focus on the idea of finding joy beyond discomfort.
We repeat that discomfort is not dangerous, and we discuss the importance of letting that understanding move beyond logic and into the body. We explore the idea that distraction can keep us stuck in anxiety cycles, while going through the feeling can lead to freedom, peace, and joy.We distinguish between smaller fears that are easier to avoid and larger life events that cannot be avoided, such as loss, accident, or ending. We suggest experimenting with the smaller situations by choosing the opposite of the usual avoidance response and approaching them with curiosity and a sense of adventure.
We then offer three practical suggestions: slow down, get to neutral and stay curious, and remind ourselves why we want to move through the situation. We emphasize noticing when we have gone back to old patterns without judgment, resetting, and trying again.We close by returning to the main questions about what lies beyond discomfort and how moving through it can open the way to what we are looking for.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How can I stop letting anxiety discomfort control my life?
You can start by slowing down, reaching a neutral state of curiosity without self-judgment, and practicing moving through the discomfort instead of avoiding it.
Why does trying to make anxiety stop sometimes make it worse?
Chasing the urge to make discomfort instantly stop often reinforces the fear cycle, keeping the pain and anxiety alive by treating normal discomfort as a dangerous emergency.
What are some practical ways to handle anxious moments?
Three effective steps include slowing down your pace, taking a neutral and curious researcher's approach to your feelings, and reminding yourself of your deeper reasons for wanting to reach the other side.
